challahfemme:

listen it is nothing but coercive to expect anyone to publicize their personal level of sexual attraction or experience with such attraction using an unnuanced term that you force on them. it is especially disgusting to expect minors, literal children, to label themselves allo and deem themselves oppressors for a sense of sexuality they may or may not have even started to experience or come to terms with.

it is has even scarier implications to do this to marginalized children who are already hypersexualized and targeted with violence for a sexualized identity being forced on them before they can even define their sexuality for themselves due to race, gender, non straight orientation, being trans, intersex, etc. 

it breaks my heart to see 12 and 13 year olds on here with about pages that say “allosexual privilege” there is a clear line being crossed here and it does not benefit ace people or ace issues whatsoever to continue ignoring sexual stigma enforced by various forms of oppression with words like ‘allo’ and it’s even more harmful to coerce minors into labeling their personal sexual experience publicly at all much less the way you want them too. 

& ok even if u dont care about us dirty allos (yikes) you are cultivating a culture where doing this is acceptable that is also so so alienating and scary to ace minors, ace survivors, etc by doing this shit & isn’t that who you’re supposed to be prioritizing?